Fit by 50 – Weeks : 41 through 44 – A new beginning… Forgiving and starting over

Returning from vacation and a 5 1/2 pound gain…That’s what I’m working with this week. While on my blogging and school vacation, I went on a cruise to Bermuda with my better half. I had an absolute blast with some much needed rest, relaxation and fun. However, that rest, relaxation and fun came with a 5 1/2 pound price tag.


That’s because while on my physical vacation, I took a vacation from my diet and exercise routine, causing the weight gain. My weight loss til date, hasn’t exactly been stellar, but now, at 41 weeks, instead of losing 9 pounds, I’m actually 4.6 pounds heavier than when I started 9 weeks ago. I’ve regained the little weight I’ve lost and then some.


While it’s tempting to throw my hands in the air, and give up, I just won’t allow myself to do that. I won’t quit. If I don’t quit, I can’t fail. While the final date remains my 50th birthday in 41 weeks, the most important thing is that I continue to eat right, exercise and aim to regain health and fitness, regardless of the end date.

So, I’m completely rethinking my approach. After doing an article on weight loss motivation, I realized my goals are focused on the wrong thing. Research suggests that the best and most successful people focus on the process of weight loss, NOT the outcome. My goal has, until now, been focused entirely on outcome – losing 50 pounds.

Closing thoughts

So,  I’m starting over, beginning with forgiving myself for the weight gain. What’s done is done, and can’t be undone, other than jumping back on the fitness band wagon. Over the next week, I’ll be rethinking, replanning and rewriting my weight loss, fitness and health goals. Instead of focusing on the weight loss, which has been extremely stressful, I’ll focus on what it will take to lose that weight, namely diet, exercise and stress relief. Instead of reporting weight loss each week, I’ll report on my success sticking or failure with my fitness and diet goals. I’ll still weigh in and report weight loss, but less frequently, perhaps once a month.

As frustrated as I am with the state of my 50 week goal, forgiving and starting over is the only way. Only time will tell whether this new approach will work.

Until next time…Namaste my friends


Author: Tamara Hoerner

Welcome to The Purple Almond Wellness I’m Tamara Hoerner, MHNE, wellness educator and founder of Purple Almond Wellness. I work with middle-age individuals to help support brain health and develop whole body wellness, in order to improve the quality of their mid-life years. Heart and Alzheimer’s diseases run in my family and I struggled with weight loss, so I strive to help others with similar conditions. Using only nutrition, I rid my body of seasonal allergies, Psoriatic Arthritis and migraines, as well as cured my insomnia. I know what it takes to use food as medicine, especially in middle age. As a wellness educator and Summa Cum Laude graduate of Hawthorn University, I develop personalized nutrition plans and wellness education sessions, to help clients. For me, the name Purple Almond symbolizes “Good, nutritious, whole food bringing light and life to the body, awakening the inherent healing mechanisms within.” I'm all about getting back to the basics, good old fashioned traditional organic, whole food, the kind your great-grandmother used to eat. You'll find no processed foods here. Just good food to heal your whole body. I also believe a healthy body isn't just about food. Stress plays a large part in the physical health of our body. I, therefore, believe in using anything that relieves stress and heals the body, including: mediation, yoga, music, laughter, inspiration and helping others. You'll find all these included in my blog as well.

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