Motivation Monday: Anyway… (The REAL version!)

Good morning all! Before we get to the main article, I have a few schedule changes over the next 3 weeks.  There is also a copy of this schedule on the sidebar to the left.

JUNE 19 – JUNE 23, 2017 – I have an oral exam on Tuesday of this week. Due to that exam, the next major article will be THANKFUL THURSDAY. (I’m taking Wednesday for a much needed day off).

You can expect the following articles this week:

  • Thankful Thursday
  • Happiness Is…
  • Feel Good Friday
  • Allergy-Free Friday
  • Daily Healthy Cooking Tips
  • Daily Quotes
  • Daily Log

JUNE 26 – JUNE 30, 2017– I will be busy participating in a week long conference and will be unavailable. Therefore:

  • NO POSTS- I will be taking the week of June 26 to June 30 off, in order to attend the conference.

JULY 1 – JULY 8, 2017 – I have some family activities planned for the later part of this week. Here are the articles you can expect:

  • Monday Motivation
  • Monday Meditation
  • Tuesday nutrition
  • Wellness Wednesday/healthy recipes
  • Daily Healthy cooking Tips – Monday to Wednesday
  • Daily Quotes – Monday to Wednesday
  • Daily Log – Monday to Wednesday

JULY 10 – Back to the usual schedule.


I am reposting a daily inspiration post from January of this year.

(Sorry, but I’m short on time this week.)

AND, I love the poem on which this article is based.

I hope you enjoy it, as it is one of my favorite posts.

God Bless! Namaste! #Sharethejoy



Today’s inspiration was born on August 26, 1910 as Agnes Gonxha Bojaxhiu  in Macedonia. You know her as Mother Teresa of Calcutta, founder of the Order of the Missionaries of Charity. Mother Teresa was canonized as Saint Teresa of Calcutta in 2016.


There is a “poem” circulating that is often attributed to Saint Teresa. This poem goes by many names: Anyway, Do It Anyway or Final Analysis. In my research into Saint Teresa and the origins of this poem, I discovered this “poem” was actually a sign hung in Shishu Bhavan, Saint Teresa’s children’s home in Calcutta.** This sign contained the “Paradoxical Commandments” and the author is actually unknown.

Below is the ACTUAL version of the commandments/poem that was hanging on the wall of the children’s home in Calcutta.**

People are unreasonable, illogical, self-centered
…love them anyway.
If you do good, people will accuse you of selfish, ulterior motives
…do good anyway.
If you are successful, you win false friends and true enemies
…be successful anyway.
The good you do today may be forgotten tomorrow
…do good anyway.
Honesty and frankness will make you vulnerable
…be honest and frank anyway.
People love underdogs but follow only top dogs
…follow some underdog anyway.
What you spend years building may be destroyed overnight
…build anyway.
People really need help but may attack you if you try to help
…help people anyway.
If you give the world the best you have, you may get kicked in the teeth
…but give the world the best you have

The popular version circulating the internet contains two further lines, which were added later, NOT by Mother Teresa. I was unable to discover who added these lines:

“You see, in the final analysis, it is between you and God;
It was never between you and them anyway.”

Kent Keith, author of the book The Paradoxical Commandments, states the following about the final 2 lines: **

“The last two lines in this “final analysis” version trouble me, because they can be read in a way that is inconsistent with the teachings of Jesus, the life of Mother Teresa, and the message of the Paradoxical Commandments themselves. The statement that “it was never between you and them anyway” seems to justify giving up on, or ignoring, or discounting other people.”

My research into this poem turned out to be very interesting. This poem is a source of inspiration for me, a beautiful reminder never to give up. It was enlightening to discover the proper version advocated by Saint Teresa.  I hope people do not find it offending or think I am trying to take anything away from Saint Teresa, which couldn’t be further from the truth. My intention was to set the record straight, considering the origins of this poem and hopefully that has been accomplished. The fact that Saint Teresa found it important enough to hang on the wall of her children’s home should indicate its  importance.

Now, no discussion of “Anyway” would be complete without the Martina McBride song! ENJOY!


Author: Tamara Hoerner

Welcome to The Purple Almond Wellness I’m Tamara Hoerner, MHNE, wellness educator and founder of Purple Almond Wellness. I work with middle-age individuals to help support brain health and develop whole body wellness, in order to improve the quality of their mid-life years. Heart and Alzheimer’s diseases run in my family and I struggled with weight loss, so I strive to help others with similar conditions. Using only nutrition, I rid my body of seasonal allergies, Psoriatic Arthritis and migraines. I know what it takes to use food as medicine, especially in middle age. As a wellness educator and Summa Cum Laude graduate of Hawthorn University, I develop personalized nutrition plans and wellness education sessions, to help clients. For me, the name Purple Almond symbolizes “Good, nutritious, whole food bringing light and life to the body, awakening the inherent healing mechanisms within.” I'm all about getting back to the basics, good old fashioned traditional organic, whole food, the kind your great-grandmother used to eat. You'll find no processed foods here. Just good food to heal your whole body. I also believe a healthy body isn't just about food. Stress plays a large part in the physical health of our body. I, therefore, believe in using anything that relieves stress and heals the body, including: mediation, yoga, music, laughter, inspiration and helping others. You'll find all these included in my blog as well.

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